You should both be sober, into each other, and ready to have a good time. And being ready to have a good time means behind prepared in advance with condoms or anything else you might need to have sex.
Man, I almost choke on my soup. It was so awkward, with my mom all worried, asking if I was okay. She tickled and teased my cockhead with her lips and tongue. Sluts Applethorpe
Make sure you have the girl's consent first, and that she's doing it because she really wants to, not because you're really putting the pressure on.
Cats chase reflections of light hoping to catch their prey. People are a lot like cats. People chase answers to questions that trap their attention and spin them in circles. Get a hold of the light source and control where you point your attention.